Perhaps you have answers to my questions below that will make more sense than my meanderings through the language. If you do, or you think you do, please note them in the comment box below. I need some insight!
I’ve been wondering lately why the phrase ‘shut up’ is so painful? Why does it seem to insult and injure the receiver? Why do many parents raise their children not to say it under any circumstances?
I’m thinking that the phrase is actually saying, “I don’t want to hear you anymore,” or, “What you have to say does not matter to me,” or, “I don’t respect who you are to bother listening,” or,”I don’t value your opinions or ideas.” So, “Shut up.”
I have never really thought about it until recently. But I do know when I’m giver or receiver of the phrase, it usually carries with it, at least, a speck of verbal disrespect.
Maybe that’s why I have a hard time when a phrase like that is, what I call, watered down by culture. You know what I’m talking about. The, “Shut uuuup,” said in a jesting or incredulous tone. Like, “You’ve got to be kidding?”
How can a phrase that seems to injure also be used in fun?
Can you share any reflections on my thoughts?
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